Can I be honest right now?
The constant pursuit of women is due to a lack of purpose in a lot of men’s life. Ironically, our convenient way of life married to the modern world of a rat race that provides no real substance of challenging men leaves men to pursue the only type of animal instinct that humans have left which is sex. You’re probably reading that and have no idea of what that means. I don’t blame you! Let me try to explain this in further details. Our way of life is enabling us to live longer lives but at the expense of our mental and physical health. I mean why else would non-communicable diseases increase in developing nations that adopt developed nations modernization. Our daily lives are filled with a lot of cannon fodder with no real substance for humans to really feel fulfilled. Humans are meant to be challenged mind body and soul.
You see men have worked for millennia in pursuit of something bigger than themselves. The problem is that today many men do not have anything to give them a purpose. Our jobs today create weak men that are weak minded who lack discipline. The discussion even surrounding high value men is based on some arbitrary perspective of what it means to be men in today’s modern time. But it’s fucking bullshit just like all the other shit even women produce. None of them speak to the real essence of being a human being. Our values in this society are so skewed to what is not important that people really think it’s achievement to be a high value man or woman.
Men today are very weak minded compared to the men of our forefathers. Humans in general are weaker than our ancestors. We’re smarter and more intelligent but we do not challenge ourselves except for some. Most of us never discover our true potential. Most of us want the easy way for everything and abhor hard work. The irony is that humans find themselves in hard work (I don’t mean hard work at a job that you need to pay bills. This is cannon fodder for feeding the capitalist machine). Therefore, our challenges today are based on the mundane seeking financial freedom from a rat race, but financial freedom is just one small part of an equation of trying to discover who you are. It’s why you see so many men struggle mentally even though they are financially free. Men are unable to tap into their inner animal instincts in a world that believes participating in a rat race and acquiring lots of money is the manly thing, today. So instead, we have a society of men who feel empty in their work and it’s only having a family that keeps them somewhat fulfilled. But even then, it only lasts for so long and for those that do not have families well then, the struggle is even more real.
The Bhutan people believe not in a GDP, but GDH which stands for Gross Domestic Happiness. They believe these are the 9 elements for achieving happiness:
- Psychological wellbeing
- Health
- Education
- Time use
- Cultural diversity and resilience
- Good governance
- Community vitality
- Ecological diversity and resilience
- Living standards
Now think of America or Nigeria and how many of these elements do we strive for daily. How many of these elements are reflected in our way of life daily and our government & economic policies? Maybe 2 or 3 possibly from a social perspective but from a government perspective it looks unsure. So, the seeking of women is just a replacement for feeling unfulfilled in life and it gives a moment of pleasure to escape from that feeling. Don’t get me wrong men are always going to want to pursue women but at the level that it’s at today is due to a lack of discipline, weak mind, and emptiness. Most men can tell you where the hoes at, but they can’t tell you what truly makes them happy!
Yoruba Demons 